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1월 27일 the most sacred and precious bond..!! “When a newly married couple smiles, everyone knows why. When a ten-year married couple smiles, everyone wonders why”. A happy marriage is heaven on earth, says the poet, a paradise that even the gods yearn to enter. However, this sacred, intimate, loving union of man and woman that we call marriage just doesn’t happen out of the blues. It has to be a constant process of growing in love and accepting each other in the day to day life situations. The marital bond of spouses remain intact and keep growing deeper in love when each one re-lives her/his ‘I came, I saw, I loved’ experience of the past.
 Awing to human shortcomings, each one of us fails to live up to the expectations of the other at one point or other – not to forget the high expectations always one has of the other and inhibition, suspicion and selfishness. But remember, none of us is perfect and let not your expectation of the other skyrocket day by day.
 Even the best of marriages and sweetest of the couples occasionally need to call on reserves of love, commitment and patience. The other becomes hell when you are hurt, angry and frustrated over some issue. Mull it over a second time before calling it shot and say those destructing words, ‘I hate you’. Such attitudes can always take away the magic of marital relationship.
 Ann was having a conversation the other day with a friend. At some point Ann told her, "I love Ben more now than the day I married him." How many of you husbands get to hear such remarks from your wives? If you don’t hear as often as you would like, it is then time to wonder what is going on. when the communication fails and is not in the way it uesd to be, be sure, the red lights are on alrerady.
To understand the other without any presumptions, to listen to without judging, to be available wholly do not look all rosy for everyone always, but thats how it works!! whether you like it or not!! and finally
 1월 21일 11. somethingHow he wished he had had a 1.5 litter bottle with him than this 1 little appy bottle of water..so that it s not empty in less than an hr...oops now who the hell thought he would be crazy enuf to sit up that late!!
he sulks and feels sluggish by the other side of the sunday..end of sunday means beginning of Monday you see...he usally hits the pillow by 10.00 pm on sundays....but life doesnt go wher you want it to go ha? esply wen deepu gets a good book, life takes a somersault....and it did last night...
on his table was 'five point somone' by chetan bhagat..."270 pages of pure fun" marks Tribune..however given his taste, thats sore and soaring high, he would have kicked it away....after all it s not, the Davinci Code, Children of the Sun, Half a life or valley of dolls....but to his horror it had sth to do with IIT....now it s sure to be done away with as if it s bitter guard curry in front of him.....but nothing wrong in tasting a little bit eh? so there he goes...on ...on..up until 5 chapters were chewed and gulped down...his appy bottle also saw the bottom...now he has sat up longer than he wanted to...he hasnt done that ever since typhee virus screwed him....
going to bed thirsty or go all the way down (now that happen to be a whopping 20 seconds walk..) to the refectory to fill the bottle dow should he kick the panic button? na….bingo...he had another idea..hit the bed, snuggle under he blanket...and so he did....curtain down..!! shooom 1월 17일 life-storyA lot of seemingly unimportant, yet events significant in their own way when put up coherently revel the story of my life and your life….. the small little stories that you may have to say vary from mine…..perhaps it could also have some resemblance ……A few years of playing around, doing lots of pranks, then a substantial amount of time spent in silence and solitude, then opening up with the advent of new friends and atmosphere that wasn’t there before, and some studies done here and there, all of these which hold no meaning in themselves, and send out no message. Not only that, it could very well be the same story that several others may have got to share. However, in my case, when each of these short stories compiled together and viewed as a whole would shed light to the person that I am and would make great sense to say my life story... I am sure and you may invariably agree with me looking at your own life, I would never have been what I am today, if the little things that happened in my life, like falling down and getting injured or playing cricket or not being able to sing… didn’t happen the way it did….how about your life?
When I look back to the events or the short stories that link together my life story, I can clearly note that not a single event last all through. There has not been any flow in the events that have been taking place in my life. From one shot to another, somehow or another I have been inconsistent. At one glance, I hardly see any connection between these events, but closer look tell the story all by itself.
What if my papa and mummy didn’t come together, but a different couple? What if I didn’t have the very brothers I have now? What if I had a different set of relatives and friends in my growing up years? What if I was born in and had to follow a different religion? What if I was born in a different state or country? What if I had pursued my education in a different school? I am sure even for one of these questions I couldn’t answer causally, ‘oh nothing would have happened’. That would have scripted a different story of me!!!
Isn’t life a story, perhaps told by some stupid that we have difficulty comprehending?
1월 9일 change comes from withinAll alone that’s how we start off,
All cheers, that’s when we come in, All tears, that’s how we respond All curious that’s how we observe, All surprises, that’s what await us, All giggles, that’s how we learn, All laughter, that’s how they watch us, All of a sudden, though we learn, All too soon, we grow up. Innocent giggles no more, but selfish grumble,
Surprised no more, but suspicion rules, Curious looks no more, but monotony prevails, Wisdom grows no more, but craves for knowledge, Love and hatred no more, but hatred and calumny, Grow n let grow no more, but incensed to kill. A change of heart, from a heart of stone to flesh, A change attitude, from an attitude of hostility to acceptance, A change disposition, from a disposition of outburst to warm smile, A change of feeling, from a feeling of resentment to feeling of love A change of being, from a being of beast to humane.  1월 5일 another New Year.... Take time to laugh: it is the music of the soul.
Take time to pray: it is the greatest power on earth. Take time to play: it is the source of perpetual youth. Take time to love and be loved: it is a God-given privilege. Take time to be friendly: it is the road to happiness. Take time to give: it is too short a day to be selfish. (Norman Vincent Peale)  Promises unfulfilled are as good as not made!  Dreams not pursed are deceptive thoughts!  This has been a terrific new year for deepu, woken up by a couple of cute ladies wishing with a bright smile, ‘happy new year’ and doing their thing with a thermometer, followed by that the other checking the BP…it was not all over there, a couple of hrs later, there come a series of injections and pots of tablets and then on as usual trips…..augrrrrr
Hope you all had a different, lively, happy, rocking, fun n sweets-filled celebrations…..
Heyy missed you all….
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